SUNRPC: Hoist trace_xprtrdma_op_allocate into generic code

Introduce a tracepoint in call_allocate that reports the exact
sizes in the RPC buffer allocation request and the status of the
result. This helps catch problems with XDR buffer provisioning,
and replaces transport-specific debugging instrumentation.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>