IB/hfi1: Reorg ctxtdata and rightsize fields

Many fields in ctxtdata are incorrectly sized and the organization of the
fields within the structure is a jumble.

Fix by:
- Correcting oversize fields.
- Putting fields common to all contexts at the top with hot fields
  at the top.
- Moving PSM fields to the bottom of the structure.

Reviewed-by: Michael J. Ruhl <michael.j.ruhl@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>