KVM: x86/mmu: Make TDP MMU root refcount atomic

In order to parallelize more operations for the TDP MMU, make the
refcount on TDP MMU roots atomic, so that a future patch can allow
multiple threads to take a reference on the root concurrently, while
holding the MMU lock in read mode.

Signed-off-by: Ben Gardon <bgardon@google.com>
Message-Id: <20210401233736.638171-7-bgardon@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>