bridge: switchdev: Notify about VLAN protocol changes

Drivers that support bridge offload need to be notified about changes to
the bridge's VLAN protocol so that they could react accordingly and
potentially veto the change.

Add a new switchdev attribute to communicate the change to drivers.

Signed-off-by: Danielle Ratson <danieller@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Petr Machata <petrm@nvidia.com>
Acked-by: Nikolay Aleksandrov <nikolay@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Ido Schimmel <idosch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Ivan Vecera <ivecera@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>