raid10: include bio_end_io_list in nr_queued to prevent freeze_array hang

This is the raid10 counterpart of the bug fixed by Nate
(raid1: include bio_end_io_list in nr_queued to prevent freeze_array hang)

Fixes: 95af587e(md/raid10: ensure device failure recorded before write request returns)
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org (V4.3+)
Cc: Nate Dailey <nate.dailey@stratus.com>
Signed-off-by: Shaohua Li <shli@fb.com>