selftests/bpf: Skip loading bpf_testmod when using -l to list tests.

When using "-l", test_progs often is executed as non-root user,
load_bpf_testmod() will fail and output errors. This patch skips loading bpf
testmod when "-l" is specified, making output cleaner.

Signed-off-by: Yucong Sun <fallentree@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Andrii Nakryiko <andrii@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20210817044732.3263066-2-fallentree@fb.com