drm/amdgpu: use HMM callback to replace mmu notifier

Replace our MMU notifier with hmm_mirror_ops.sync_cpu_device_pagetables
callback. Enable CONFIG_HMM and CONFIG_HMM_MIRROR as a dependency in
DRM_AMDGPU_USERPTR Kconfig.

It supports both KFD userptr and gfx userptr paths.

Signed-off-by: Philip Yang <Philip.Yang@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Felix Kuehling <Felix.Kuehling@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Signed-off-by: Alex Deucher <alexander.deucher@amd.com>