netlink: add macro for checking dump ctx size

We encourage casting struct netlink_callback::ctx to a local
struct (in a comment above the field). Provide a convenience
macro for checking if the local struct fits into the ctx.

Reviewed-by: Jacob Keller <jacob.e.keller@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Jiri Pirko <jiri@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>