ipmi: Limit the number of message a user may have outstanding

This way a rogue application can't use up a bunch of memory.

Based on work by Chen Guanqiao <chen.chenchacha@foxmail.com>

Cc: Chen Guanqiao <chen.chenchacha@foxmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Corey Minyard <cminyard@mvista.com>