Btrfs: add tracepoint for em's EEXIST case

This is adding a tracepoint 'btrfs_handle_em_exist' to help debug the
subtle bugs around merge_extent_mapping.

Signed-off-by: Liu Bo <bo.li.liu@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>