block: store the holder kobject in bd_holder_disk

We hold a reference to the holder kobject for each bd_holder_disk,
so to make the code a bit more robust, use a reference to it instead
of the block_device.  As long as no one clears ->bd_holder_dir in
before freeing the disk, this isn't strictly required, but it does
make the code more clear and more robust.

Orignally-From: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Yu Kuai <yukuai3@huawei.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20221115141054.1051801-10-yukuai1@huaweicloud.com


Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>