IB/uverbs: Fix method merging in uverbs_ioctl_merge

Fix a bug in uverbs_ioctl_merge that looked at the object's iterator
number instead of the method's iterator number when merging methods.

While we're at it, make the uverbs_ioctl_merge code a bit more clear
and faster.

Fixes: 118620d3 ('IB/core: Add uverbs merge trees functionality')
Signed-off-by: Matan Barak <matanb@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Leon Romanovsky <leon@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>