drm: Pass struct drm_file * to __drm_mode_object_find [v2]

This will allow __drm_mode_object_file to be extended to perform
access control checks based on the file in use.

v2: Also fix up vboxvideo driver in staging

[airlied: merging early as this is an API change]

Suggested-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Signed-off-by: Keith Packard <keithp@keithp.com>
Signed-off-by: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>