drm/fb-helper: Add drm_fb_helper_defio_init()

Add helper for initializing fbdev deferred I/O.

The cleanup could have happened in drm_fb_helper_fini(), but that would
have required me to set fb_info->fbdefio to NULL in a couple of drivers
before they call _fini() to avoid double defio cleanup. The problem is
that one of those is vboxvideo which lives in Greg's staging tree.
So I put the cleanup in drm_fb_helper_fbdev_teardown(), not perfect
but not that bad either.

Signed-off-by: Noralf Trønnes <noralf@tronnes.org>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20171215175119.36181-6-noralf@tronnes.org