RDS: Do not call set_page_dirty() with irqs off

set_page_dirty() unconditionally re-enables interrupts, so
if we call it with irqs off, they will be on after the call,
and that's bad. This patch moves the call after we've re-enabled
interrupts in send_drop_to(), so it's safe.

Also, add BUG_ONs to let us know if we ever do call set_page_dirty
with interrupts off.

Signed-off-by: Andy Grover <andy.grover@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>