lockref: use BLOATED_SPINLOCKS to avoid explicit config dependencies

Avoid the fragile Kconfig construct guestimating spinlock_t sizes; use a
friendly compile-time test to determine this.

[kirill.shutemov@linux.intel.com: drop CONFIG_CMPXCHG_LOCKREF]
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Signed-off-by: Kirill A. Shutemov <kirill.shutemov@linux.intel.com>
Cc: Ingo Molnar <mingo@elte.hu>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>