of: __of_detach_node() - remove node from phandle cache

Non-overlay dynamic devicetree node removal may leave the node in
the phandle cache.  Subsequent calls to of_find_node_by_phandle()
will incorrectly find the stale entry.  Remove the node from the
cache.

Add paranoia checks in of_find_node_by_phandle() as a second level
of defense (do not return cached node if detached, do not add node
to cache if detached).

Fixes: 0b3ce78e ("of: cache phandle nodes to reduce cost of of_find_node_by_phandle()")
Reported-by: Michael Bringmann <mwb@linux.vnet.ibm.com>
Cc: stable@vger.kernel.org # v4.17+
Signed-off-by: Frank Rowand <frank.rowand@sony.com>
Signed-off-by: Rob Herring <robh@kernel.org>