um: Some fixes to build UML with musl

musl toolchain and headers are a bit more strict. These fixes enable building
UML with musl as well as seem not to break on glibc.

Signed-off-by: Ignat Korchagin <ignat@cloudflare.com>
Tested-by: Brendan Higgins <brendanhiggins@google.com>
Signed-off-by: Richard Weinberger <richard@nod.at>