NFS: Clear up state owner lock usage

can_open_cached() reads values out of the state structure, meaning that
we need the so_lock to have a correct return value.  As a bonus, this
helps clear up some potentially confusing code.

Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>
Signed-off-by: Trond Myklebust <trond.myklebust@primarydata.com>