geneve: break dependency with netdev drivers

Equivalent to "vxlan: break dependency with netdev drivers", don't
autoload geneve module in case the driver is loaded. Instead make the
coupling weaker by using netdevice notifiers as proxy.

Cc: Jesse Gross <jesse@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Hannes Frederic Sowa <hannes@stressinduktion.org>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>