net: dsa: use dsa_to_port helper everywhere

Do not let the drivers access the ds->ports static array directly
while there is a dsa_to_port helper for this purpose.

At the same time, un-const this helper since the SJA1105 driver
assigns the priv member of the returned dsa_port structure.

Signed-off-by: Vivien Didelot <vivien.didelot@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Florian Fainelli <f.fainelli@gmail.com>
Reviewed-by: Andrew Lunn <andrew@lunn.ch>
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <jakub.kicinski@netronome.com>