nvmet: provide aen bit functions for multiple controller types

Move nvmet_aen_disabled and nvmet_clear_aen in preparation for other types
of controllers to use, initially the discovery controller.

Signed-off-by: Jay Sternberg <jay.e.sternberg@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Johannes Thumshirn <jthumshirn@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Sagi Grimberg <sagi@grimberg.me>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>
Signed-off-by: Jens Axboe <axboe@kernel.dk>