bpf: Refine memcg-based memory accounting for arraymap maps

Include percpu arrays and auxiliary data into the memcg-based memory
accounting.

Signed-off-by: Roman Gushchin <guro@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20201201215900.3569844-9-guro@fb.com