[SCSI] lpfc 8.3.9: Fix locking and memory issues

- Use the hbalock when changing the fc_flag.
- Use the host_lock when changeing the sli_flag.
- Prevent NULL pointer dereference after dma_alloc_coherent failure.

Signed-off-by: James Smart <james.smart@emulex.com>
Signed-off-by: James Bottomley <James.Bottomley@suse.de>