usb gadget: g_ether spinlock recursion fix

The new spinlock debug code turned up a spinlock recursion bug in the
Ethernet gadget driver on a disconnect path; it would show up with any
UDC driver where the cancellation of active requests was synchronous,
rather than e.g. delayed until a controller's completion IRQ.

That recursion is fixed here by creating and using a new spinlock to
protect the relevant lists.

Signed-off-by: David Brownell <dbrownell@users.sourceforge.net>
Signed-off-by: Greg Kroah-Hartman <gregkh@suse.de>