libceph: bump CEPH_OSD_MAX_OP to 3

Our longest osd request now contains 3 ops: copyup+hint+write.

Also, CEPH_OSD_MAX_OP value in a BUG_ON in rbd_osd_req_callback() was
hard-coded to 2.  Fix it, and switch to rbd_assert while at it.

Signed-off-by: Ilya Dryomov <ilya.dryomov@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>
Reviewed-by: Alex Elder <elder@linaro.org>