bpf: Eliminate rlimit-based memory accounting infra for bpf maps

Remove rlimit-based accounting infrastructure code, which is not used
anymore.

To provide a backward compatibility, use an approximation of the
bpf map memory footprint as a "memlock" value, available to a user
via map info. The approximation is based on the maximal number of
elements and key and value sizes.

Signed-off-by: Roman Gushchin <guro@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Song Liu <songliubraving@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20201201215900.3569844-33-guro@fb.com