RDS: TCP: Simplify reconnect to avoid duelling reconnnect attempts

When reconnecting, the peer with the smaller IP address will initiate
the reconnect, to avoid needless duelling SYN issues.

Acked-by: Santosh Shilimkar <santosh.shilimkar@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Sowmini Varadhan <sowmini.varadhan@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>