net/mlx5: add IFC bits for bypassing port select flow table

port_select_flow_table_bypass - When set, device supports
bypass port select flow table.
active_port - Bitmask indicates the current active ports
in PORT_SELECT_FT LAG.
MLX5_SET_HCA_CAP_OP_MODE_PORT_SELECTION - op_mod to operate
PORT_SELECTION_Capabilities.

Signed-off-by: Liu, Changcheng <jerrliu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>