net/mlx5: detect and enable bypass port select flow table

Use port selection capability port_select_flow_table_bypass
bit to detect and enable explicit port affinity even when
in lag hash mode.

Signed-off-by: Liu, Changcheng <jerrliu@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Mark Bloch <mbloch@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@nvidia.com>