dma-buf: add dma_resv_get_singleton v2

Add a function to simplify getting a single fence for all the fences in
the dma_resv object.

v2: fix ref leak in error handling

Signed-off-by: Christian König <christian.koenig@amd.com>
Reviewed-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20220321135856.1331-3-christian.koenig@amd.com