Btrfs: add WARN_ONCE to detect unexpected error from merge_extent_mapping

This is a subtle case, so in order to understand the problem, it'd be good
to know the content of existing and em when any error occurs.

Signed-off-by: Liu Bo <bo.li.liu@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Josef Bacik <jbacik@fb.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>