RDMA/cma: Report connect info with connect events

Connection information was never given to the recipient of a
connection request or reply message.  Only the event was delivered.
Report the connection data with the event to allows user to
reject the connection based on the requested parameters, or adjust
their resources to match the request.

Signed-off-by: Sean Hefty <sean.hefty@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Roland Dreier <rolandd@cisco.com>