bpf: use skb_expand_head in bpf_out_neigh_v4/6

Unlike skb_realloc_headroom, new helper skb_expand_head
does not allocate a new skb if possible.

Additionally this patch replaces commonly used dereferencing with variables.

Signed-off-by: Vasily Averin <vvs@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>