libceph: prevent the race of incoming work during teardown

Add an atomic variable 'stopping' as flag in struct ceph_messenger,
set this flag to 1 in function ceph_destroy_client(), and add the condition code
in function ceph_data_ready() to test the flag value, if true(1), just return.

Signed-off-by: Guanjun He <gjhe@suse.com>
Reviewed-by: Sage Weil <sage@inktank.com>