IB/hfi1: Handle send with invalidate opcode in the RC recv path

As part of enabling extended memory management support, add the processing
of the RC send with invalidate.

Reviewed-by: Mike Marciniszyn <mike.marciniszyn@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Jianxin Xiong <jianxin.xiong@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Dennis Dalessandro <dennis.dalessandro@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: Doug Ledford <dledford@redhat.com>