net: udp: introduce UDP_MIB_MEMERRORS for udp_mem

When udp_memory_allocated is at the limit, __udp_enqueue_schedule_skb
will return a -ENOBUFS, and skb will be dropped in __udp_queue_rcv_skb
without any counters being done. It's hard to find out what happened
once this happen.

So we introduce a UDP_MIB_MEMERRORS to do this job. Well, this change
looks friendly to the existing users, such as netstat:

$ netstat -u -s
Udp:
    0 packets received
    639 packets to unknown port received.
    158689 packet receive errors
    180022 packets sent
    RcvbufErrors: 20930
    MemErrors: 137759
UdpLite:
IpExt:
    InOctets: 257426235
    OutOctets: 257460598
    InNoECTPkts: 181177

v2:
- Fix some alignment problems

Signed-off-by: Menglong Dong <dong.menglong@zte.com.cn>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/1604627354-43207-1-git-send-email-dong.menglong@zte.com.cn


Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>