srcu: Automatically determine size-transition strategy at boot

This commit adds a srcutree.convert_to_big option of zero that causes
SRCU to decide at boot whether to wait for contention (small systems) or
immediately expand to large (large systems).  A new srcutree.big_cpu_lim
(defaulting to 128) defines how many CPUs constitute a large system.

Co-developed-by: Neeraj Upadhyay <quic_neeraju@quicinc.com>
Signed-off-by: Neeraj Upadhyay <quic_neeraju@quicinc.com>
Signed-off-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@kernel.org>