f2fs: introduce struct flush_cmd_control to wrap the flush_merge fields

Split the flush_merge fields from sm_i, and use the new struct flush_cmd_control
to wrap it, so that we can igonre these fileds if flush_merge is disable, and
it alse can the structs more neat.

Signed-off-by: Gu Zheng <guz.fnst@cn.fujitsu.com>
Signed-off-by: Jaegeuk Kim <jaegeuk.kim@samsung.com>