drm/udl: Get rid of dev->struct_mutex usage

It's only used to protect our page list, and only when we know we have
a full reference. This means none of these code paths can ever race
with the final unref, and hence we do not need dev->struct_mutex
serialization and can simply switch to our own locking.

For more context the only magic the locked gem_free_object provides is
that it prevents concurrent final unref (and destruction) of gem
objects while anyone is holding dev->struct_mutex. This was used by
i915 (and other drivers) to implement eviction handling with less
headaches.

Signed-off-by: Daniel Vetter <daniel.vetter@intel.com>
Cc: Dave Airlie <airlied@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Sean Paul <seanpaul@chromium.org>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20180327082356.24516-3-daniel.vetter@ffwll.ch