omapfb: add FB manual update option to Kconfig

Also move the controller specific options up in the menu, to a more
logical spot.

Signed-off-by: Imre Deak <imre.deak@nokia.com>
Acked-by: Krzysztof Helt <krzysztof.h1@wp.pl>
Signed-off-by: Andrew Morton <akpm@linux-foundation.org>
Signed-off-by: Linus Torvalds <torvalds@linux-foundation.org>