[media] via-camera: use v4l2_s_ctrl instead of the s_ctrl op

This op is deprecated and should not be used anymore.

Signed-off-by: Hans Verkuil <hans.verkuil@cisco.com>
Cc: Jonathan Corbet <corbet@lwn.net>
Signed-off-by: Mauro Carvalho Chehab <mchehab@s-opensource.com>