nfsd: make nfsd4_run_cb a bool return function

queue_work can return false and not queue anything, if the work is
already queued. If that happens in the case of a CB_RECALL, we'll have
taken an extra reference to the stid that will never be put. Ensure we
throw a warning in that case.

Signed-off-by: Jeff Layton <jlayton@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>