selftests: bpf: Test sockmap update from BPF

Add a test which copies a socket from a sockmap into another sockmap
or sockhash. This excercises bpf_map_update_elem support from BPF
context. Compare the socket cookies from source and destination to
ensure that the copy succeeded.

Also check that the verifier rejects map_update from unsafe contexts.

Signed-off-by: Lorenz Bauer <lmb@cloudflare.com>
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>
Acked-by: Yonghong Song <yhs@fb.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/bpf/20200821102948.21918-7-lmb@cloudflare.com