xfs: support bmapping delalloc extents in the CoW fork

Allow the creation of delayed allocation extents in the CoW fork.  In
a subsequent patch we'll wire up iomap_begin to actually do this via
reflink helper functions.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Christoph Hellwig <hch@lst.de>