srcu: Add boot-time control over srcu_node array allocation

This commit adds an srcu_tree.convert_to_big kernel parameter that either
refuses to convert at all (0), converts immediately at init_srcu_struct()
time (1), or lets rcutorture convert it (2).  An addition contention-based
dynamic conversion choice will be added, along with documentation.

[ paulmck: Apply callback-scanning feedback from Neeraj Upadhyay. ]

Co-developed-by: Neeraj Upadhyay <quic_neeraju@quicinc.com>
Signed-off-by: Neeraj Upadhyay <quic_neeraju@quicinc.com>
Signed-off-by: Paul E. McKenney <paulmck@kernel.org>