KVM: x86: Extend KVM_SET_VCPU_EVENTS with selective updates

User space may not want to overwrite asynchronously changing VCPU event
states on write-back. So allow to skip nmi.pending and sipi_vector by
setting corresponding bits in the flags field of kvm_vcpu_events.

[avi: advertise the bits in KVM_GET_VCPU_EVENTS]

Signed-off-by: Jan Kiszka <jan.kiszka@siemens.com>
Signed-off-by: Avi Kivity <avi@redhat.com>