xprtrdma: Move the rpcrdma_sendctx::sc_wr field

Clean up: This field is not needed in the Send completion handler,
so it can be moved to struct rpcrdma_req to reduce the size of
struct rpcrdma_sendctx, and to reduce the amount of memory that
is sloshed between the sending process and the Send completion
process.

Signed-off-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Signed-off-by: Anna Schumaker <Anna.Schumaker@Netapp.com>