RDMA/rxe: Merge normal and retry atomic flows

Make the execution of the atomic operation in rxe_atomic_reply()
conditional on res->replay and make duplicate_request() call into
rxe_atomic_reply() to merge the two flows. This is modeled on the behavior
of read reply. Delete the skb from the atomic responder resource since it
is no longer used. Adjust the reference counting of the qp in
send_atomic_ack() for this flow.

Fixes: 8700e3e7 ("Soft RoCE driver")
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20220606143836.3323-6-rpearsonhpe@gmail.com


Signed-off-by: Bob Pearson <rpearsonhpe@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>