svc: Change sk_inuse to a kref

Change the atomic_t reference count to a kref and move it to the
transport indepenent svc_xprt structure. Change the reference count
wrapper names to be generic.

Signed-off-by: Tom Tucker <tom@opengridcomputing.com>
Acked-by: Neil Brown <neilb@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Chuck Lever <chuck.lever@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Greg Banks <gnb@sgi.com>
Signed-off-by: J. Bruce Fields <bfields@citi.umich.edu>